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Success is not extrinsic… It’s not measurable.

“Success” can only truly occur internally, because it is based on emotion. At the most basic level, success is your relationship with yourself. Most people are living a lie. They purposefully ignore and distract themselves from what they deep down want for themselves. Many people want something more for themselves. They have dreams and ambitions. Yet, few of these people ever get what they intended. Being ambitious isn’t enough. Far more important than ambition is commitment. When you’re committed to something, you will be and do what is required for the attainment of that thing. You’ll stop wondering and start building. You’ll stop being distracted and start learning. You’ll start connecting. You’ll start failing. You’ll get what you want, rather than have a long list of “ambitions.” You’ll have actual accomplishments that reflect your inner goals and values. Your external environment will reflect your deepest internal views and aims. If you’re committed to a marriage, y...

ANGER

I have been doing some biblical research about Anger and the Bibles view on anger. Today that’s what I will share with you and how to manage it. Anger can be the most intense, destructive and unhealthy emotions we can have. If it is not handled properly, it can change our lives forever. Anger can be caused from many different things we go through in life such as, work, family, relationships, or even from someone else's wrong doing. Without resolving it can be disastrous 1. Control your temper. When people mistreat us and there’s nothing we can do about it, we get angry. It isn’t fair. Parents see it in their young children who are constantly on the lookout to make sure everything is fair. The gut reaction to get angry in the face of unfairness never really goes away. God’s Word says that we are to control our tempers, even in the face of unfairness. Sensible people control their temper; they earn respect by overlooking wrongs. -Proverbs 19:11 Earn respect. What ...

Toxic peaple

Like many things in life, being forewarned that someone is potentially a toxic person to deal with is forearmed. It also enables you to protect yourself where necessary. Knowing someone may probably be picky and even underhand, you can ensure you follow all procedures to the official letter, get back up in where necessary and make sure you get every instruction or agreement in writing. The 10 giveaway signs of a toxic person So just how do you spot a toxic person? Luckily there are a number of easy-to-spot signs that, when you’re aware of them, enable you to pick them out a mile off. 1) They’re selfish Toxic people are so busy thinking of themselves that they’ll rarely show any concern for others. Their communication setting is about themselves And it’s not just their conversation. Toxic people genuinely have no concern for your feelings, and feel no need to take them into consideration. And worryingly, this often demonstrates itself in control. They only care about how...